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Why You Keep Dismissing Your Feelings & And How to Start Validating Them
Are you constantly second-guessing your emotions or telling yourself they’re “not a big deal”? This habit of self-invalidation often stems from trauma and can leave you feeling disconnected from your inner wisdom. Learn how to gently shift this pattern and begin honoring your emotions with curiosity and care.
Why You Don’t Need to Fix Yourself: Understanding Your Nervous System Response
If you feel stuck in a loop of self-help, striving to “fix” yourself but still feel disconnected or overwhelmed, you’re not alone. Learn how this constant self-improvement can actually be a trauma response—and how somatic tools can help you feel safe, present, and enough exactly as you are.
Emotional Overwhelm: Somatic Tools to Calm Your Nervous System
When emotions feel overwhelming, shutting down isn’t a failure—it’s your nervous system protecting you. Learn how emotional overwhelm impacts the body and explore gentle somatic practices to support yourself in moments of stress, disconnection, or freeze.
Why Talk Therapy Is Powerful But Sometimes Not Enough
You’ve processed your past, gained insight into your patterns, and understood your anxiety—but you still feel stuck. If talk therapy hasn’t fully eased your anxiety, your body may be holding onto experiences that words can’t reach. Learn why somatic healing can bridge the gap between understanding and true nervous system regulation.
How to Feel Safe in Relationships When Vulnerability Feels Unsafe
If you've ever longed for connection but pulled away when things got close, you're not alone. Vulnerability can feel dangerous, especially if past experiences taught your nervous system that openness isn’t safe. This blog explores why we shut down in relationships and offers somatic tools to gently rebuild trust and emotional safety.
Why Trauma Makes You Feel Numb & How to Gently Reconnect
If you’ve felt emotionally numb or disconnected from your body, you’re not alone. Trauma can cause the nervous system to shift into freeze or shutdown mode as a way to protect you. This blog explores why that happens, how to recognize the signs of emotional numbness, and gentle somatic tools to support your reconnection with self and sensation.
How to Move Out of Survival Mode and Into Healing
Many people don’t realize they’re stuck in survival mode—constantly operating in fight, flight, freeze, or shutdown. This can lead to chronic stress, exhaustion, and emotional numbness. Learn how to identify survival mode in your body and discover practical somatic tools to help you shift into a state of safety, regulation, and healing.
Why Emotional Regulation Feels So Hard
Struggling with emotional overwhelm, anxiety, or feeling stuck in reactive patterns? You’re not alone. Many people were never taught how to process emotions in a way that feels safe. This blog explores why emotional regulation is challenging, how suppressed emotions impact the body, and a simple somatic practice to help you feel more grounded and in control.
Getting to the Root Cause
Many healing approaches focus on managing symptoms rather than addressing the root cause. If you’ve tried therapy, medical treatment, or self-care practices without lasting relief, it’s not because you’re doing something wrong. The missing piece may be a dysregulated nervous system. Learn how nervous system regulation can create real, lasting change in your health, emotions, and overall well-being.
Understanding Anxiety as a Physical Experience
Anxiety isn't just a mental experience—it affects the body too. From muscle tension and shallow breathing to digestive issues and chronic pain, anxiety can manifest in physical ways that keep you feeling stuck. Learn how your nervous system responds to stress and discover somatic tools to help you feel more grounded, present, and at ease.
Find Grounding in Climate Uncertainty
Natural disasters like wildfires, hurricanes, and earthquakes can trigger intense anxiety and overwhelm. When uncertainty strikes, our nervous system shifts into survival mode, making it difficult to feel calm or in control.
Explore practical somatic tools, like breathwork, self-soothing, and grounding techniques, to help you regulate your nervous system and find moments of steadiness, even in the face of unpredictability. Learn how to support your body and mind through life’s uncertainties.
Rewiring Your Nervous System to Heal from Chronic Pain
Healing is not a one-size-fits-all process, but there are powerful tools and practices that can help rewire your brain and break the cycle of pain and fear.
One of the most transformative practices in my own healing—and the one that has helped countless clients reclaim their lives—is addressing the nervous system. Living without chronic pain or debilitating symptoms can be possible.
The Power of Feeling Into Anger
What do you think would happen if you gave yourself permission to truly feel your anger?
This might surprise you, but when we have a healthy connection to anger, it can actually feel empowering. By allowing yourself to safely express anger, you validate your own needs.
Why Your Body Doesn’t Believe You’re Safe (Even When You Know You Are)
We live in a time where self-awareness and personal growth are highly valued. Many of us spend years in therapy, uncovering our patterns, understanding our triggers, and making sense of the past. Yet, despite all this insight, something feels off.
We know we are safe. We know we are no longer in that toxic relationship, that painful childhood home, or that traumatic event. And yet—our bodies tell a different story.
Anxiety still lingers. Rest doesn’t come easily. Stress feels like a constant undercurrent, even when life is objectively calm.
If this sounds familiar, you’re not alone. The missing piece in your healing journey may not be in your mind—but in your body. Having trouble falling asleep is a common experience, and stress or anxiety are often to blame. When the nervous system is in a heightened state, the body activates its natural stress response, releasing hormones like cortisol and adrenaline. This makes you feel more alert, your mind races, and suddenly, sleep feels impossible.
Once this stress response is activated, it can be challenging to fall or stay asleep. Worse yet, a lack of sleep can increase chronic pain, anxiety, or other symptoms, creating a negative cycle that impacts daily life.
Sleep & Stress: How to Calm Your Nervous System for Better Rest
Having trouble falling asleep is a common experience, and stress or anxiety are often to blame. When the nervous system is in a heightened state, the body activates its natural stress response, releasing hormones like cortisol and adrenaline. This makes you feel more alert, your mind races, and suddenly, sleep feels impossible.
Once this stress response is activated, it can be challenging to fall or stay asleep. Worse yet, a lack of sleep can increase chronic pain, anxiety, or other symptoms, creating a negative cycle that impacts daily life.
Reclaiming Your Worth Beyond Productivity
Feeling stuck or out of control can show up in your life in many ways—whether it's different types of anxiety, chronic pain, chronic illness, struggles in your relationships, or any other number of experiences.
Although these issues might appear and feel different, they all originate from the nervous system.
How To Start Loving Your Sensitivity
Have you ever been told you were “too sensitive” as a child? Maybe it came from a parent, teacher, or another well-meaning adult when you cried over something small, got overwhelmed in a busy room, or noticed something others seemed to miss.
Stop Dismissing Your Feelings: How to Start Validating Yourself
Have you ever caught yourself thinking, “I’m overreacting” or “It’s not that big of a deal” when you’re feeling upset? Or maybe you’ve compared your struggles to others and decided your feelings weren’t bad enough to matter. This is self-invalidation—a habit that often stems from trauma, conditioning, or environments where your emotions weren’t acknowledged.
The Power of 'No': A Somatic Boundary Setting Guide
Can you think of a time when you found yourself saying yes to something, but your body was telling you no?
Maybe your shoulders tensed up, your stomach felt uneasy, or you noticed a tightness in your chest. These are just a few of the ways our bodies try to communicate when something doesn’t feel right.
I hear from so many clients who struggle with setting boundaries. If this sounds familiar, know that you’re not alone, and there are ways to navigate these moments with more ease.
Feeling Stuck? How to Move Out of the Freeze State
Have you ever felt paralyzed by a task, unable to move forward no matter how urgent it feels? You might be experiencing what’s known as the Freeze state, a survival response where your nervous system combines the energy of fight/flight with the shutdown of immobility. It’s like revving the engine of a car stuck in neutral—lots of energy but no movement.