Joy can feel out of reach when your nervous system is stuck in survival mode. This post explores why joy feels distant, introduces the concept of glimmers, and offers a simple practice to help you reconnect with small moments of pleasure.

Many people ask, “Is this intuition or trauma?” It is a deeply human question, and the answer lies in learning the language of your body. Here is how to tell the difference, and a simple exercise to help you begin building trust in your intuition.

Do you ever try to rest but end up feeling guilty, restless, or more anxious? Rest doesn’t always feel restorative, sometimes it feels uncomfortable. This isn’t laziness or weakness; it’s a nervous system response shaped by survival and cultural conditioning. Here’s why rest feels so hard and a few gentle ways you can relearn rest as a safe, supportive practice.

Before diving into your to-do list, try this simple somatic ritual to set the tone for your week and create space for the energy you want to embody.

Your body often knows what’s right before your mind can explain it. Learn the quiet, powerful cues that signal safety, alignment, and inner “yes.”

Learning to recognize the subtle ways your body communicates “no” can help you stop overriding your boundaries, deepen self-trust, and live more in alignment with your needs.

If you’ve ever tried to connect with your body and felt… nothing, you’re not broken. Disconnection is a common nervous system response, especially after chronic stress or trauma. These five gentle questions can help you begin rebuilding that connection, one moment at a time.

Healing doesn’t always look like joy, motivation, or big emotional breakthroughs. Sometimes it looks like exhaustion, sensitivity, or second-guessing your “no.” If you’ve been wondering whether your inner work is really working, here are 8 subtle, but powerful, signs that your nervous system is slowly finding safety.

Are you constantly second-guessing your emotions or telling yourself they’re “not a big deal”? This habit of self-invalidation often stems from trauma and can leave you feeling disconnected from your inner wisdom. Learn how to gently shift this pattern and begin honoring your emotions with curiosity and care.

We’ve been taught to push through discomfort and override our needs—but your body is always communicating with you. Learn how ignoring these signals impacts your nervous system, and explore gentle somatic ways to rebuild trust and reconnect with your body.

If you feel stuck in a loop of self-help, striving to “fix” yourself but still feel disconnected or overwhelmed, you’re not alone. Learn how this constant self-improvement can actually be a trauma response—and how somatic tools can help you feel safe, present, and enough exactly as you are.